Yep, my ex told me, one day in June of 1991 (we had been married 7 years), that I took good care of her and treated her right, she just doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce. Until that moment, I thought I was happily married. I will admit I had a difficult time wrapping my head around it and simped trying to make it work, after it was to late. She was out on a date the weekend after she moved out. To try and shorten this novel, took me 3 years to get over her. During that 3 years, the dallas cowboy cheerleaders could have paraded in front of me bare assed, and I would not have noticed. After the 3 years, began dating again. Did not like the way western women's mind worked, stopped dating them in 1997, and started looking overseas. Meantime she remarried and divorced again. I found, in 1998, and married a traditional Russian woman in 2000. Been happily married almost 24 years now. Last I heard, a few months ago, she is single, living with her mother and mentally challenged sister, and is 62 now. Karma is a bugger.
I was with you until you said Dallas cowboy cheerleader😢 coming from my eagles fan 🤣😂🤣 something similar happened to me congratulations bro and always remember this they are stalking your Facebook page or your wife's Facebook page to see how good you're doing and they are regretting every minute of it 🗣️ whoooooo I love it when a plan works out.
@@vtc8570 amen brother, I’m sad to lose someone I thought I would marry but at least I can travel and live where I want and at 21 that’s more important.
Well said! I use to hang around these kind of women and I latter discovered how delusional they are. They deluded themselves into thinking that they were too good for everyone . Glad I left those friends behind. Brothers,don’t entertain them!
My ex wife did the monkey branch after 20 years of marriage. It's the best thing that could've happened to me. It took me about 5 years to recover, but I'm doing better than ever and she's still miserable.
2 year ago after 14 year she left me and block me in everything, still hurting me but slowly i get over it,i get dubbele longtransplantatie new house.doing my best.
Success is the best revenge. My man left me take away everything. He bought me car also he took it away too. Where I live I have to drive. He left me to suffer. But today ge regrets. I'm now successful buy an excellent too. I now glad he left. The woman who he with now is now good. She has tobe trying hard to hold him by using witchcraft and deceit. It sad. He doesn't love her.
I reentering the dating pool about 5 years ago at age 60, following the death of my wife. I wasted big money on a matchmaker who "guarenteed " 10 dates. This women were within 10 years of my age. Holy cow, was i shocked. Bitter divorcees, only interested in what monetrary benefits i could provide. I had job interviews that were less rigorous. How much money did i make, what kind of car did i drive, what part of town did i live in, etc. If it was just 1 or 2, ok...but everyone was similiar. I cancelled after 7 dates. I dusted off my passport, and have found s gorgeous 42 year old Filipina. She cooks cleans, expects me to lead. She honors our relationship in all ways, big and small. Go where you are appreciated.
I lost it when you said that you had job interviews that were less rigorous. 😂what I’ve learned about being around people from outside the US….we can have an entire night just hanging out, talking about life….and the conversation “ice breaker”question very likely will not come up. That question is, “so, what do you do?” My answer, is now, I live. I sur-thrive! 😉yes I just made that word up!
The only problem is she is a third world lady. They can't compete in terms of companionship with a woman of European descent. I dont need a woman to cook and clean. I want a woman for companionship.
I'm very happy to hear that it worked out for you Barry. From the 7 dates you spoke of, some women are bitter and need to fix themselves before they can even begin to think about dating. They are a liability and not an asset. I got my passport as well.
The problem is everybody thinks the grass is green on the other side. That's the problem. It's when they get to the other side. They realize the grass is just as dirty or worse.
Entitlement, Feminism, Antidepressants 💊, Anti-anxiety 💊 Chain Smoking , Box's of Wine, Cat or Dog Mom and living her best life😂.. All these women have in their future 😂
These women that leave long marriages to good men don't realize that the men they leave have more choices than them because men don't have such high requirements for a mate that women do. Men are willing to settle whereas women are not! Ladies you wanted independence and the freedom to do whatever you want, but there are consequences for your choices and actions!
@@mudiabubakar8503 Hi there I 100% agree with you that men have no expiration date, and women do! Now a days women want to date up and most of the times don't even have much, but look for the man to take care and pamper them. Look at all the men getting smart these days becoming Passport Bro's going over seas looking and finding old fashioned women I say Western Women smarten up and Help Build with your man and don't look for greener grass because there is none!!! What ever happened to marriage vows, through good & bad. Don't leave a marriage of 10 years or more!!!
@paulineloft8490 Yes sis! We are not even looking for women to help build us up. All we ask is for her to be respectful, a bit patient, kind, she to be feminine, thank him for all the good things he does for her, be grateful and don't tear him down at every chance. These attributes should be simple enough.
What about the man that monkey branches? Mine did to a younger woman after 36 years of marriage, snuck out in the middle of the night, and texted me he was leaving me. He has not even spoken to his children or grand son in a year and a half. Not just women do this.
Every time i see a woman leave her husband for a new man, it always fails with the new man. I think that woman hit the branch face first. That woman said she gave up the good life, toys and all that. Then says she is doing so much better as she is crying on the internet. Also saying she is triggered because her ex is thriving. How can you be doing so great while crying and being triggered?
Lying to herself.......it's a thing that I see in most women. There is a part of their brain that will not allow them to confess or admit wrong or guilt. It's child like but sinister at the same time.
She’s a pathological liar & a human embodiment of a red flag. What’s worse is that these human disasters have children who will be influenced by their toxicity throughout their childhood.
she sold a stock during a Bear Market that went on to have an amazing Bull run, and she can't get back in. Did she learn and go find a good man and stay with HIM? Nope! 🤣
Many women seem to think they are living in a Hallmark or Disney romcom where at any moment a handsome prince on a white horse will whisk her away from her mundane life and any problems she has ?
I know I’m done wasting money taking women out on dates only to be ghosted afterwards because I wasn’t good enough for them. I got better self respect than that
I stopped doing so also. I just take their numbers and never call back. I have bought a brand new car and by the grace of God a new house soon. Afterward, a business. It's better than a 5-star dining, buying gifts, and in the end, they cheat.
True. Normally I meet a woman at a coffee shop, or at the movies. But this time the woman didn't want to go to the movies. She said it wouldn't allow us to talk to each other. So I begrudgingly agreed to meet her at a Sushi restaurant. Worst date of my life. She is a successful business woman. The whole time she was bragging about her accomplishments, and looking for things to criticize about me. Ended up telling me that I wasn't her type. Told me I reminded her too much of her ex. Ghosted me after I paid for the expensive meal that I didn't even enjoy. Now I know. Never again will I let a woman choose the location of the first date. If she doesn't like the place I choose, then too bad. I just won't go out with her
My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years together. I called out her insecurities, controlling, manipulating, and gaslighting. My X thought that the grass was greener on the other side. My X godmother said she had all the bells and whistles, and that I dodged the bullet. Now, my X is cashing in on her karma. As for me, I leveled up, banking, investing, gym 🏋️♀️ and traveling
You can buy an all original classic car that was always garage kept, or find a diamond in the rough that you lovingly restore from the ground up, but God help you if you get the wreck that was slapped together with bondo and baling wire but has a smokin' hot paint job. You know underneath it's rotten to the core.
in 1992 my wife of 13 1/2 yrs decided the kid at work (10yrs younger than her) was what she wanted and needed, of course later it came out she was pregnant by Mr wonderful, she signed a no contest divorce, gave up the kids and the new house for this guy well, after all the pain and grief we went through, after she left, she didn't want contact with the kids well, 30yrs later, she and Mr wonderful have lost a mobile home, moved across the country to start over, moved every two years She had two kids with the new guy. it took some time, but she really did me and the kids a favor
I supported my ex for 20 years,he has severe schizophrenia.I sadly decided to leave him.I was fortunate to receive amazing housing and fresh.He went to jail for armed robbery,very sad.I battle on,had a few casual and boyfriends.I single now and now building myself up and hoping for love.There is always a different perspective and life has twists and turns.
Hi Paul. Truer words have NOT been said. I'm 59, never been married, swm from South Africa. No-one is PERFECT in EVERY way. It's BETTER to build TOGETHER than ALONE. Compliment one another. We NEED each-other. Ying and Yang. We all NEED the other person's perspective in life. We can ALWAYS learn from one another.
@@katashi222woman are always coping, it’s a known fact majority of them are depressed and unhappy hence they always go out looking for happiness in heavy consumerism or constant travel etc looking for a feeling that doesn’t exist🤷♂️ they’re a slave to their emotions.
These women remind me of my own mother. She left my father after 22 years of marriage, and had another failed marriage and a string of boyfriends, and nobody could convince her that she would have been better off staying with my father. They are the only people really who believe their narrative about their lives.
You're right. If she is so good with herself, she would not be on Tik-Tok shedding tears of how she misses this and that; and how she's worried about how she will take care of her kids (which by the way is nonsense, since the court would have made him have to be at least child support); about having to start all over after 12 years of marriage. And that spiritual wellness is a load of bull; she is bitter, angry and jealous that her husband has successfully moved on and has built a prosperous new life; while on the other hand, she has taken four steps backwards.
After 27 years of marriage where I was the sole provider, 3 kids, and a comfy life, vacations to many places and countries, my ex said I wasn't good enough and would never be. she fell in love with someone internationallyn 19 years younger who'd game with her 15 hours a day. Can't say I'll ever trust another woman. She says she has no regrets.
So many women came to me with the dissatisfied crocodile tears😢 about their boyfriend, wasband, lover, because she wanted a new retirement and hotdog plan B. Those women were all liars, it was just my turn. Those women always kept their the bad guy around while attempting to keep me. NO😂😂
As a older man, single for a many years, dated a few good women, never married any of them because they forgot who was doing the picking. The more education they had the worst the bs. The lady I date now, is a well travel, educated poor girl. As of now she seems to be focus on my wellbeing and take good care of me. In return, I keep her mind free of worry. If she changes, I move on, When the conversations becomes, I'm not happy, I'm need or you not doing this or that. Its game over.
It's always about me, myself and I, what about the kids, why aren't they with their dad, so you can find yourself and not worry about how to have a roof over their head and feed them? The father would do that without one word of complaint. Funny they think it's their kids, when it's not.
I took back a monkey brancher. Both best and worst decision of my life. Best because of my daughter we had. Worst because my ex turned into Satan afterwards
When I was in Lima, Peru recently with my beautiful Peruvian girlfriend, we took an Uber to a nice coastal area of the city called Miraflores. While at a stoplight, there was a woman with a baby strapped on her back and a 5- or 6-year-old in tow. The woman was walking between cars trying to sell fake flowers as the three of them endured car fumes & high outside temperatures. Now that's a hard life. After seeing that, I can't sympathize with the above lady who decided to selfishly monkey branch to a new guy who wasn't better.
"She didn't want to take care of a husband who had lost most of the mobility on his left side." But, I thought she was so "in love" with the man she left her husband for? That second woman is NOT okay! I don't care what she says; she's a basket case! Folks remember: The grass might actually be greener over on the other side; but just understand that the lush, green grass over there is being fertilized from underneath... ...by a leaking septic tank! 🤣🤣🤣🤣‼️
My ex after 27 years got an inheritance. We had 4 children an ok business and a good life . She decided to leave for the weekend with her ÁP and wanted a hug on her return home . Unfortunately I stopped loving her . She’s still single and bitter .
Yup. It’s been three years.The ex (narcissist) wanted a divorce from me. Today, I am even more successful having a great time traveling the world with a hot Colombian girlfriend while she can’t keep a man (semper pumped and dumped) and lives in her aunt’s basement with a cat. Karma is real!
I’m realizing that many women (not all) just don’t understand the nature of karma or consequences! I would have thought that to be true of teenagers. But, to see middle-aged women act without consideration for implications is really eye-opening! Otherwise, the fact that she can claim that decisions are made for well-being while she is recording a video of herself crying is just remarkable! I feel bad for her boys! And, did that lady really say “God is not delivering what I am supposed to get!” So, she is the ultimate arbiter of determine what God owes her!?! Wt…?
For once, it would be nice to hear a woman say that she actually misses her man instead of everything the man provides. Women only love what they can get. That’s it!
That first video, all I heard was "My life sucks and he is doing better but I can't admit that I screwed up and I am not doing what it takes to do this on my own. Nope I am just fine (Crying)"
Women’s love is conditional, it is based on your ability to provide, your resources, your looks etc. She will throw you off a cliff for a perceived better option. This is exactly why I choose to be single and live in peace.
I just can’t get past That dingy T-shirt….this is just one stage of her grief….regret! She messed around, and “found-out”. She out on social media crashing out!😂😂😂. good for him!
My term for women like this is a 'Jungle Jane' as they go from vine to vine not letting go until the next one is lined up. And yes, they always end up FALLING!
Some wives will never leave you while testing all the branches. Because of family members looking down on them. Or a job that would be compromised because of a divorce. Or her safety net at home is just too stable to walk away from. That type of betrayal is worse than her divorcing you. When you finally find out what she's been doing for years behind your back, it's on a whole different level of pain. Some women need constant male attention, and one man will never fill that need.
The funniest thing is how majority of the time, when they try to monkey branch, the guy they left for usually dumps them as soon as they realize she's got no loyalty, as proven by how she dumped her husband for them.😂😂😂 The Chad that steals your wife is actually shit testing them for you. Payback is a B. 😂😂😂
she didn't love her husband in the first place. she just didn't want to be single anymore. she settled. then she realized life is short and wants to hit the ejection button. that's why men should sit back and let women pursue them...then he can decide whether to escalate the relationship or bail.
To the woman @ 10:56 You get what you give! If you put in minimum effort to attract a man you desire don't expect maximum effort from that same man because he has many choices and you have to stand out among his many choices which requires work on your part. If you don't want to put in the work then just date a simp where he will worship you and do everything for you! Desirable men don't have to put in effort to attract women!
"You're constantly that nightmare... you are the one that keeps him down...": They nag-nag-nag because of too much 'me, me, me', which eventually turns into "Miaow! Miaow! Miaow!"
An older woman , 40 plus years old trying to compete with a younger woman 15 - 20 years her junior, man that's like putting up a 95 crown vic against a brand new Ferrari
It's hard for me not to laugh out loud. 😂 The grass is not always greener. I am the man that thrived after a long relationship and she prays for my demise
She is not happy,and shouldn’t tell others to left their spouse…Why would she leave if he’s a good man.Women think before you leave .The grass isn’t always greener.It’s probably worst.
Never get with a man to build with. I did for 7yrs helped him so much saved him tons of money and gave him a child. He didn’t want to be with me. Didn’t have to lift his finger. Left me because I was sick and because I wasn’t more involved into the church. Turns out he had a girl waiting for him for 4 yrs. It hurts how he told me not to be around my family because they didn’t really love me. Told me he was the only one that loved me. I stopped talking to family then he would ignore me and my son. We were so lonely and unloved. Now he’s so happy with his new girlfriend. A month before he started to spend more time with us and being more loving. Started talking about our future and how happy he is with his family. It caught me off guard. I’m so heart broken. Two months and it still hurts. He goes to the same church and wants me to leave so he can bring his new girlfriend.
30 years ago, I dated a lovely women for 3 years( we were both Christian’s and did not believe in premarital sex- only kissed 3 times the entire dating experience). She tried to turn me into a SIMP😡, I wasn’t having it, told her I will do anything for a wife but, not a day before. I was just starting a great corporate career but she wanted me to buy her stuff, told her I’m building wealth so she dumped me. A year later I hear from her and she all of a sudden wants to have sex asap, I denied, 7 months later she had a baby. I heard through mutual friends the daddy is dead beat and she’s still single and living with her momma 20 years later. Thank God I dodged that one.
My ex-wife thought she could do better than me after 18 years together. I moved on, replaced her in short order with someone more physically attractive and better in every other way as well... meanwhile she has a new man every few months and is generally broke and alone. I'm not sure if she cheated or not. I don't even care. But if she had grabbed onto another branch on the way it definitely broke. I know one guy she was dating during the divorce dumped her because of how she treated me. He and I had a mutual friend who filled him in after he got my side of the story. He dumped her the next day. 😂😂😂
@bigone9539 I don't check up on her since the divorce is over. I wouldn't cross the street to piss on her even if she was on fire. She is no longer my problem. But if I discovered that I knew someone she was seeing, I would feel like an asshole to not warn him of what he's getting involved with. 😂
Even as a boy in the early 1970s, I started connecting the dots and knew that marrying a Western woman was probably not going to end well. That was 50 years ago and even I would have never imagined how bad relationships are now for a man. I have been living in Latin America for 10 years and the women here act like the women from my grandmother’s era. The West is broken and in my opinion everything comes back to how the women are. Need I say more?
Wow, you laid out the old school dating process we used to do when we used to get to know each other first before building up to the next phase of dating.
That is not always a regret of that "she must've stayed". It's more commonly just jealousy. That someone is doing better than her. You know how women can feel bad if even her best friends start to thrive? It's the same.
The one in the car seems like she has been recently divorced, and now she is finding out the SM place doesn't find her as desirable as it did when she was younger. So as usual instead of taking accountability for her faults and actions, she is using the sisterhood mantra of blame the men.
The ex husband is going to get screwed again. No way is he a businessman. Getting married a second time proves he's not good at business unless he's a pimp.
Not me. I'll take a woman of European descent only. I have lots of experience with ALL women of the world too. Those asian women are with you for the status not for your charisma, BTW. If you have a European woman, you can be sure you have Charisma.
I remember many years ago there was this comment I read on RUclips similar to this video and from memory it was from a female and the quote goes like this although it may not be accurate (if only I can find it) : Men are like radio stations, the moment the women change the radio station to the new radio station and realised the music played on the new radio station does not play the right type of music compared to the first radio station and the women change back to the previous radio station and that type of music isn't playing anymore, you may never hear it again.
Yep, my ex told me, one day in June of 1991 (we had been married 7 years), that I took good care of her and treated her right, she just doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce. Until that moment, I thought I was happily married. I will admit I had a difficult time wrapping my head around it and simped trying to make it work, after it was to late. She was out on a date the weekend after she moved out. To try and shorten this novel, took me 3 years to get over her. During that 3 years, the dallas cowboy cheerleaders could have paraded in front of me bare assed, and I would not have noticed. After the 3 years, began dating again. Did not like the way western women's mind worked, stopped dating them in 1997, and started looking overseas. Meantime she remarried and divorced again. I found, in 1998, and married a traditional Russian woman in 2000. Been happily married almost 24 years now. Last I heard, a few months ago, she is single, living with her mother and mentally challenged sister, and is 62 now. Karma is a bugger.
This a wonderful outcome!!! Made my Friday..😂😂
Bravo bro
I was with you until you said Dallas cowboy cheerleader😢 coming from my eagles fan 🤣😂🤣 something similar happened to me congratulations bro and always remember this they are stalking your Facebook page or your wife's Facebook page to see how good you're doing and they are regretting every minute of it 🗣️ whoooooo I love it when a plan works out.
@@eddieelliott1496 I know, right? However if he was unresponsive to Eagles Cheerleaders, thats definitely saying something. 🤣
@@andre1987eph you must be a cowboys fan 🤮
If she leaves and you do better without her, she was probably holding you back.
@@vtc8570 amen brother, I’m sad to lose someone I thought I would marry but at least I can travel and live where I want and at 21 that’s more important.
I hate how these women play the victim when they orchestrated their own demise
Well said! I use to hang around these kind of women and I latter discovered how delusional they are. They deluded themselves into thinking that they were too good for everyone . Glad I left those friends behind. Brothers,don’t entertain them!
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I cannot agree with you more. This is so true. They make a decision and blame you for it NOT working out as she wants it to.
Yeah it's amazing lol
SOME PEOPLE ALWAYS LIKE TO PLAY THE VICTIM
People think the grass is greener on the other side when all they have to do is water their own lawn.
My ex wife did the monkey branch after 20 years of marriage. It's the best thing that could've happened to me.
It took me about 5 years to recover, but I'm doing better than ever and she's still miserable.
27 here. Only it ruined everything. So much future lost to her party now.
Women are miserable in general. Why bring that burden onto yourself by marrying one?
2 year ago after 14 year she left me and block me in everything, still hurting me but slowly i get over it,i get dubbele longtransplantatie new house.doing my best.
This is very rare
I guess the old saying is true "Living well is the best revenge"😊
It is. I have seen it firsthand time and time again.
Success is the best revenge. My man left me take away everything. He bought me car also he took it away too. Where I live I have to drive. He left me to suffer. But today ge regrets. I'm now successful buy an excellent too. I now glad he left. The woman who he with now is now good. She has tobe trying hard to hold him by using witchcraft and deceit. It sad. He doesn't love her.
Dude out here teaching Stuff Harvard can't. The Older Man Spittin' Truth!
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This is real gender studies.
She monkey branched, and the branch broke 😂😂😂.
She tried to monkey branch and missed the branch 😂😂😂
Paul, you've made day ❤
I reentering the dating pool about 5 years ago at age 60, following the death of my wife. I wasted big money on a matchmaker who "guarenteed " 10 dates. This women were within 10 years of my age.
Holy cow, was i shocked. Bitter divorcees, only interested in what monetrary benefits i could provide. I had job interviews that were less rigorous. How much money did i make, what kind of car did i drive, what part of town did i live in, etc.
If it was just 1 or 2, ok...but everyone was similiar. I cancelled after 7 dates.
I dusted off my passport, and have found s gorgeous 42 year old Filipina. She cooks cleans, expects me to lead. She honors our relationship in all ways, big and small.
Go where you are appreciated.
I lost it when you said that you had job interviews that were less rigorous. 😂what I’ve learned about being around people from outside the US….we can have an entire night just hanging out, talking about life….and the conversation “ice breaker”question very likely will not come up. That question is, “so, what do you do?” My answer, is now, I live. I sur-thrive! 😉yes I just made that word up!
The only problem is she is a third world lady. They can't compete in terms of companionship with a woman of European descent. I dont need a woman to cook and clean. I want a woman for companionship.
You should have dated teen agers
They don't interview you
I'm very happy to hear that it worked out for you Barry. From the 7 dates you spoke of, some women are bitter and need to fix themselves before they can even begin to think about dating. They are a liability and not an asset. I got my passport as well.
@@USBestCountryonEarth thank you, and I wish you well
The problem is everybody thinks the grass is green on the other side. That's the problem. It's when they get to the other side. They realize the grass is just as dirty or worse.
They will not realize it due to poaching is not a commandment.
also known as "cattle mentality"...
The snag they don't realize is once they cross to the other side, there is no going back. Thanks for playing! GAME OVER!
It’s greener, because it’s more shit (manure) over there…Lol!
@@KNitsua_ Facts
Entitlement, Feminism, Antidepressants 💊, Anti-anxiety 💊 Chain Smoking , Box's of Wine, Cat or Dog Mom and living her best life😂.. All these women have in their future 😂
Insane combo☠️☠️☠️☠️ at that point you’re just cooked
@@SeaneSean06”box’s of wine”
You forgot plants ! They be giving them names also 😂😂😂
You really wonder what is in her head, oh yeah it's turmoil, chaos, selfishness, emotionally unstable, immaturity.
@@mike-we8pbjust stay the heck out of that war zone.
These women that leave long marriages to good men don't realize that the men they leave have more choices than them because men don't have such high requirements for a mate that women do. Men are willing to settle whereas women are not! Ladies you wanted independence and the freedom to do whatever you want, but there are consequences for your choices and actions!
Men don't have an expiration date. Women do!
All they think about is "her" Entitlements. I can take this, I can accuse that. I'm the big boss, oh it's too hot let me go sit inside.
@@mudiabubakar8503 Hi there I 100% agree with you that men have no expiration date, and women do! Now a days women want to date up and most of the times don't even have much, but look for the man to take care and pamper them. Look at all the men getting smart these days becoming Passport Bro's going over seas looking and finding old fashioned women I say Western Women smarten up and Help Build with your man and don't look for greener grass because there is none!!! What ever happened to marriage vows, through good & bad. Don't leave a marriage of 10 years or more!!!
@paulineloft8490
Yes sis!
We are not even looking for women to help build us up. All we ask is for her to be respectful, a bit patient, kind, she to be feminine, thank him for all the good things he does for her, be grateful and don't tear him down at every chance.
These attributes should be simple enough.
If that woman was spiritualky wealthy she would be glowing and so happy. She's lying coz she doesn't want to accept that she's messed up
So this candidate bore children with her husband, than left her husband and is now in angst of how she will feed her boys? Actions have consequences.
Best thing a man can do after his woman leaves, is to thrive and to do significantly better than before
Women leave you as an act of mercy. They will even utter a word from God confirming this (usually one sentence you'll remember for decades)
What about the man that monkey branches? Mine did to a younger woman after 36 years of marriage, snuck out in the middle of the night, and texted me he was leaving me. He has not even spoken to his children or grand son in a year and a half. Not just women do this.
@@tomfromtartu9706 Yes indeed 💯✊
She is giving a bad advice to other women and presenting it as piece of gold 😂 what a BS 😂
Misery likes company
Man! I wish as a man I had this info earlier in my life. Every presentation is spot on.
She trying to convince herself she did the right thing and that shes alright. Just lying her ass off. Lol
YAHTZEE
Lieing is first best trait.
Every time i see a woman leave her husband for a new man, it always fails with the new man. I think that woman hit the branch face first. That woman said she gave up the good life, toys and all that. Then says she is doing so much better as she is crying on the internet. Also saying she is triggered because her ex is thriving. How can you be doing so great while crying and being triggered?
Lying to herself.......it's a thing that I see in most women. There is a part of their brain that will not allow them to confess or admit wrong or guilt. It's child like but sinister at the same time.
She’s a pathological liar & a human embodiment of a red flag. What’s worse is that these human disasters have children who will be influenced by their toxicity throughout their childhood.
@katashi222 preach brotha
she sold a stock during a Bear Market that went on to have an amazing Bull run, and she can't get back in. Did she learn and go find a good man and stay with HIM? Nope! 🤣
@@andre1987ephNo a memecoin that has just 10x’ed 😂
These women are living on Fantasy Island.
🧏♀️"Look, Boss. Dee plane! Dee plane!" 🛩
Many women seem to think they are living in a Hallmark or Disney romcom where at any moment a handsome prince on a white horse will whisk her away from her mundane life and any problems she has ?
" You're going to be on Tik Tok crying your ass off ! " Can I use that one, Bro? 🤣🤣🤣💯
It’s yours Bro🤣🤣👊🏾
Poor boys, they should live with their father, not that greedy woman. Hope father gets full custody. She only talks about material things she lost.
I know I’m done wasting money taking women out on dates only to be ghosted afterwards because I wasn’t good enough for them. I got better self respect than that
I stopped doing so also. I just take their numbers and never call back. I have bought a brand new car and by the grace of God a new house soon. Afterward, a business.
It's better than a 5-star dining, buying gifts, and in the end, they cheat.
Brian, I hope you weren't buyong dinners. Drinks or coffee only for 1st date
Make sure you guys are in shape and you'll have more options to choose from. Trust me.✌🏾
@@GUITARTIME2024 1 or 2 drinks,MAXIMUM, AT THE CHEAPEST BAR IN TOWN,ON HAPPY HOUR.
True. Normally I meet a woman at a coffee shop, or at the movies. But this time the woman didn't want to go to the movies. She said it wouldn't allow us to talk to each other. So I begrudgingly agreed to meet her at a Sushi restaurant. Worst date of my life. She is a successful business woman. The whole time she was bragging about her accomplishments, and looking for things to criticize about me. Ended up telling me that I wasn't her type. Told me I reminded her too much of her ex. Ghosted me after I paid for the expensive meal that I didn't even enjoy. Now I know. Never again will I let a woman choose the location of the first date. If she doesn't like the place I choose, then too bad. I just won't go out with her
These women don't make sense. Don't get emotionally attached to them, and you will be okay 😊
🗣️ Facts
Chapter 1 dataclysm: 50 yo woman has 2% of the matches of a 20 yo. The house has burned down and they r asking full price. Vivica has a 30 bmi.
She destroyed a family. These people are horrible
The street is excited to welcome them.
My X left me for a rebound guy after a few years together. I called out her insecurities, controlling, manipulating, and gaslighting. My X thought that the grass was greener on the other side. My X godmother said she had all the bells and whistles, and that I dodged the bullet. Now, my X is cashing in on her karma. As for me, I leveled up, banking, investing, gym 🏋️♀️ and traveling
You can buy an all original classic car that was always garage kept, or find a diamond in the rough that you lovingly restore from the ground up, but God help you if you get the wreck that was slapped together with bondo and baling wire but has a smokin' hot paint job. You know underneath it's rotten to the core.
She doesn't care about the kids.
She only worried about herself.
Send the kids to the father.
I believe its called karma
It's called " reap what you sow"
Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. Galatians 6:7
No such thing as karma. Good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people.
in 1992 my wife of 13 1/2 yrs decided the kid at work (10yrs younger than her) was what she wanted and needed, of course later it came out she was pregnant by Mr wonderful, she signed a no contest divorce, gave up the kids and the new house for this guy
well, after all the pain and grief we went through, after she left, she didn't want contact with the kids
well, 30yrs later, she and Mr wonderful have lost a mobile home, moved across the country to start over, moved every two years
She had two kids with the new guy.
it took some time, but she really did me and the kids a favor
I am surprised it lasted 30 years.
I supported my ex for 20 years,he has severe schizophrenia.I sadly decided to leave him.I was fortunate to receive amazing housing and fresh.He went to jail for armed robbery,very sad.I battle on,had a few casual and boyfriends.I single now and now building myself up and hoping for love.There is always a different perspective and life has twists and turns.
Hi Paul. Truer words have NOT been said. I'm 59, never been married, swm from South Africa. No-one is PERFECT in EVERY way. It's BETTER to build TOGETHER than ALONE. Compliment one another. We NEED each-other. Ying and Yang. We all NEED the other person's perspective in life. We can ALWAYS learn from one another.
Marriage is building a future successful life together.Or should be.
I do not understand how she is online blubbering!! And trying to say she's ok??? Its nuts.
She's lying to her hurt self.
@@katashi222woman are always coping, it’s a known fact majority of them are depressed and unhappy hence they always go out looking for happiness in heavy consumerism or constant travel etc looking for a feeling that doesn’t exist🤷♂️ they’re a slave to their emotions.
Yep trying to convince herself and others that she is better off while breaking down.
Trying to convince herself
Theyre all nuts .
These women remind me of my own mother. She left my father after 22 years of marriage, and had another failed marriage and a string of boyfriends, and nobody could convince her that she would have been better off staying with my father. They are the only people really who believe their narrative about their lives.
You're right. If she is so good with herself, she would not be on Tik-Tok shedding tears of how she misses this and that; and how she's worried about how she will take care of her kids (which by the way is nonsense, since the court would have made him have to be at least child support); about having to start all over after 12 years of marriage. And that spiritual wellness is a load of bull; she is bitter, angry and jealous that her husband has successfully moved on and has built a prosperous new life; while on the other hand, she has taken four steps backwards.
After 27 years of marriage where I was the sole provider, 3 kids, and a comfy life, vacations to many places and countries, my ex said I wasn't good enough and would never be. she fell in love with someone internationallyn 19 years younger who'd game with her 15 hours a day. Can't say I'll ever trust another woman. She says she has no regrets.
Branch always going to break for these overweight women!! With no man!! Keep teaching Paul👌🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
👩💻 Ooo, another branch 🌴 on the Gram. . . 🐒 *SIX MONTHS LATER* 😭 Why can't God send me a good man?
Couldn't see the forest for the trees
This man is full of wisdom and encouragement
So many women came to me with the dissatisfied crocodile tears😢 about their boyfriend, wasband, lover, because she wanted a new retirement and hotdog plan B. Those women were all liars, it was just my turn. Those women always kept their the bad guy around while attempting to keep me. NO😂😂
You know Paul, I’m so glad that I’m starting to save for retirement at a ripe young age of 23 years old.
As a older man, single for a many years, dated a few good women, never married any of them because they forgot who was doing the picking. The more education they had the worst the bs. The lady I date now, is a well travel, educated poor girl. As of now she seems to be focus on my wellbeing and take good care of me. In return, I keep her mind free of worry. If she changes, I move on, When the conversations becomes, I'm not happy, I'm need or you not doing this or that. Its game over.
Anything off with a woman you are dating is when you tell them “I need some space” or “I think we should just be friends.”
Lesson learned.
It's always about me, myself and I, what about the kids, why aren't they with their dad, so you can find yourself and not worry about how to have a roof over their head and feed them? The father would do that without one word of complaint. Funny they think it's their kids, when it's not.
All you hear from them is: my kids my kids
Women think just because they birth the kids it’s only their kids. Without us men giving them the spark of life they can’t carry and birth nothing 💯
I took back a monkey brancher. Both best and worst decision of my life. Best because of my daughter we had. Worst because my ex turned into Satan afterwards
When I was in Lima, Peru recently with my beautiful Peruvian girlfriend, we took an Uber to a nice coastal area of the city called Miraflores. While at a stoplight, there was a woman with a baby strapped on her back and a 5- or 6-year-old in tow. The woman was walking between cars trying to sell fake flowers as the three of them endured car fumes & high outside temperatures. Now that's a hard life. After seeing that, I can't sympathize with the above lady who decided to selfishly monkey branch to a new guy who wasn't better.
"She didn't want to take care of a husband who had lost most of the mobility on his left side."
But, I thought she was so "in love" with the man she left her husband for?
That second woman is NOT okay! I don't care what she says; she's a basket case!
Folks remember: The grass might actually be greener over on the other side; but just understand that the lush, green grass over there is being fertilized from underneath...
...by a leaking septic tank! 🤣🤣🤣🤣‼️
My ex after 27 years got an inheritance. We had 4 children an ok business and a good life . She decided to leave for the weekend with her ÁP and wanted a hug on her return home . Unfortunately I stopped loving her . She’s still single and bitter .
Instead of losing one guy they lose 2 smfh! Monkey branch is a very dangerous risk.
Yup. It’s been three years.The ex (narcissist) wanted a divorce from me. Today, I am even more successful having a great time traveling the world with a hot Colombian girlfriend while she can’t keep a man (semper pumped and dumped) and lives in her aunt’s basement with a cat. Karma is real!
I’m realizing that many women (not all) just don’t understand the nature of karma or consequences! I would have thought that to be true of teenagers. But, to see middle-aged women act without consideration for implications is really eye-opening!
Otherwise, the fact that she can claim that decisions are made for well-being while she is recording a video of herself crying is just remarkable! I feel bad for her boys!
And, did that lady really say “God is not delivering what I am supposed to get!” So, she is the ultimate arbiter of determine what God owes her!?! Wt…?
For once, it would be nice to hear a woman say that she actually misses her man instead of everything the man provides. Women only love what they can get. That’s it!
That first video, all I heard was "My life sucks and he is doing better but I can't admit that I screwed up and I am not doing what it takes to do this on my own. Nope I am just fine (Crying)"
SHE DID NOT REALLY LOVE HER HUSBAND
Women’s love is conditional, it is based on your ability to provide, your resources, your looks etc. She will throw you off a cliff for a perceived better option. This is exactly why I choose to be single and live in peace.
Hilarious! It’s called “karma” when these women think they are upgrading men but it goes bad for them.
I just can’t get past That dingy T-shirt….this is just one stage of her grief….regret! She messed around, and “found-out”. She out on social media crashing out!😂😂😂. good for him!
It’s in their nature to find the best provider. Most are not very good at it
It's a gamble and sometimes they don't want to admit when they lose....such is life
My term for women like this is a 'Jungle Jane' as they go from vine to vine not letting go until the next one is lined up. And yes, they always end up FALLING!
No one single man can meet all the requirements women crave in a marriage.
Some wives will never leave you while testing all the branches. Because of family members looking down on them. Or a job that would be compromised because of a divorce. Or her safety net at home is just too stable to walk away from. That type of betrayal is worse than her divorcing you. When you finally find out what she's been doing for years behind your back, it's on a whole different level of pain. Some women need constant male attention, and one man will never fill that need.
The funniest thing is how majority of the time, when they try to monkey branch, the guy they left for usually dumps them as soon as they realize she's got no loyalty, as proven by how she dumped her husband for them.😂😂😂
The Chad that steals your wife is actually shit testing them for you. Payback is a B. 😂😂😂
Never underestimate a woman’s ability to always be the victim even though she is the cause of the problem.
9:22: The Post Purchase Rationalization is strong with this one.
she didn't love her husband in the first place. she just didn't want to be single anymore. she settled. then she realized life is short and wants to hit the ejection button. that's why men should sit back and let women pursue them...then he can decide whether to escalate the relationship or bail.
To the woman @ 10:56 You get what you give! If you put in minimum effort to attract a man you desire don't expect maximum effort from that same man because he has many choices and you have to stand out among his many choices which requires work on your part. If you don't want to put in the work then just date a simp where he will worship you and do everything for you! Desirable men don't have to put in effort to attract women!
So she's mad because her ex successful? 😂😂😂
Regret...yet no remorse.
"You're constantly that nightmare... you are the one that keeps him down...":
They nag-nag-nag because of too much 'me, me, me', which eventually turns into "Miaow! Miaow! Miaow!"
An older woman , 40 plus years old trying to compete with a younger woman 15 - 20 years her junior, man that's like putting up a 95 crown vic against a brand new Ferrari
It's hard for me not to laugh out loud. 😂 The grass is not always greener. I am the man that thrived after a long relationship and she prays for my demise
Paul, you give practical advice and wisdom. Trying to get both sides to think it out. I appreciate it sir.
Glad to help😁👊🏾
She is not happy,and shouldn’t tell others to left their spouse…Why would she leave if he’s a good man.Women think before you leave .The grass isn’t always greener.It’s probably worst.
I love when they realize they made a big mistake, they start crying and their noses get all red 😂😂😂
Never get with a man to build with. I did for 7yrs helped him so much saved him tons of money and gave him a child. He didn’t want to be with me. Didn’t have to lift his finger. Left me because I was sick and because I wasn’t more involved into the church. Turns out he had a girl waiting for him for 4 yrs. It hurts how he told me not to be around my family because they didn’t really love me. Told me he was the only one that loved me. I stopped talking to family then he would ignore me and my son. We were so lonely and unloved. Now he’s so happy with his new girlfriend. A month before he started to spend more time with us and being more loving. Started talking about our future and how happy he is with his family. It caught me off guard. I’m so heart broken. Two months and it still hurts. He goes to the same church and wants me to leave so he can bring his new girlfriend.
30 years ago, I dated a lovely women for 3 years( we were both Christian’s and did not believe in premarital sex- only kissed 3 times the entire dating experience). She tried to turn me into a SIMP😡, I wasn’t having it, told her I will do anything for a wife but, not a day before. I was just starting a great corporate career but she wanted me to buy her stuff, told her I’m building wealth so she dumped me. A year later I hear from her and she all of a sudden wants to have sex asap, I denied, 7 months later she had a baby. I heard through mutual friends the daddy is dead beat and she’s still single and living with her momma 20 years later. Thank God I dodged that one.
Indeed dodged that one!
I call cap!!!! They thought the grass was greener and it wasn't lol
My ex-wife thought she could do better than me after 18 years together.
I moved on, replaced her in short order with someone more physically attractive and better in every other way as well... meanwhile she has a new man every few months and is generally broke and alone.
I'm not sure if she cheated or not. I don't even care. But if she had grabbed onto another branch on the way it definitely broke. I know one guy she was dating during the divorce dumped her because of how she treated me. He and I had a mutual friend who filled him in after he got my side of the story. He dumped her the next day. 😂😂😂
That's sensational 😂
@bigone9539 I don't check up on her since the divorce is over. I wouldn't cross the street to piss on her even if she was on fire. She is no longer my problem.
But if I discovered that I knew someone she was seeing, I would feel like an asshole to not warn him of what he's getting involved with. 😂
Also, many married women let single women talk them out of their best situations. I bet money she had some single ‘friend’ cheering her bad decisions.
The biggest enemy for married women is her single gal friends who are secretly jealous of her married state ?
Nice silver play button. Good job!
Watching this video, I’m glad I let him go, because today I have more security and inner peace.
Even as a boy in the early 1970s, I started connecting the dots and knew that marrying a Western woman was probably not going to end well. That was 50 years ago and even I would have never imagined how bad relationships are now for a man. I have been living in Latin America for 10 years and the women here act like the women from my grandmother’s era. The West is broken and in my opinion everything comes back to how the women are. Need I say more?
Consequences
Good commentary, and you're 💯 about this sobbing woman.
She sounds like she’s trying to convince herself
Absolutely
Wow, you laid out the old school dating process we used to do when we used to get to know each other first before building up to the next phase of dating.
God bless you, bruddah! You're doing the Lord's work.
That is not always a regret of that "she must've stayed". It's more commonly just jealousy. That someone is doing better than her. You know how women can feel bad if even her best friends start to thrive? It's the same.
The one in the car seems like she has been recently divorced, and now she is finding out the SM place doesn't find her as desirable as it did when she was younger. So as usual instead of taking accountability for her faults and actions, she is using the sisterhood mantra of blame the men.
It reminds me of the proverb "a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush".
You gambled when you thought the grass was greener elsewhere and realized it was artificial turf. Own your decision nobody made you jump ship.
Paul you are killin me bro damn you my abs are so sore from laughing stop telling the truth bro im dieing here ahahahahahaha
Regarding the shiny stuff. I tried to explain this to a niece of mine. Perfectly explained.
The ex husband is going to get screwed again. No way is he a businessman. Getting married a second time proves he's not good at business unless he's a pimp.
I'll take a Provence girl from the Philippines over any Western Women in a heartbeat!!
Me too, mine is from Capiz Province
Not me. I'll take a woman of European descent only. I have lots of experience with ALL women of the world too. Those asian women are with you for the status not for your charisma, BTW. If you have a European woman, you can be sure you have Charisma.
I remember many years ago there was this comment I read on RUclips similar to this video and from memory it was from a female and the quote goes like this although it may not be accurate (if only I can find it) :
Men are like radio stations, the moment the women change the radio station to the new radio station and realised the music played on the new radio station does not play the right type of music compared to the first radio station and the women change back to the previous radio station and that type of music isn't playing anymore, you may never hear it again.
Leasten up guys and gals the Older Man is giving a Master Class on relationship's.
to the black woman - yes, your standards are too high because the guys you want aren't approaching you.